We don't always have to explain We don't always need to have the explanation We don't always need a reason Sometimes things just happen They just come, and then they go Just like they came There was nothing I did to make to make them come There's nothing anyone can do to make them stay … Continue reading Life Cycle
Beginning of this year I didn't fast. I've fasted beginning of every year for the last decade, basically all my adult life. Except this year. Why didn't I fast. I wanted to rebel and see what happens. Okay Let me give some background about this fasting 'religion'. Every end of year/ beginning of year, us … Continue reading Life lately|| Trusting ‘the process’ || Gratitude
My names are... always confusing, to people; they be like, So what's your name? and I say it, and they have this strange look on their face like I was supposed to be called something more pleasing to the ears. Oh well, my Name is Otibhor; you pronounce the ending part the way you pronounce … Continue reading About Me
Awwww, guys its been too long. But I just want to say I didn't forget y'all, I've just been going THROUGH stuff, I'm halfway through now, learning my lessons finally. The most potent of which is that God's love for us is so strong, so fiery, so fierce, so big it will bulldoze anything that … Continue reading Crazy love
The legal age for adulthood is 20. Like, it's the agreed consensus around the world. Some countries have it at 18, some 25, and some 30. But 20 goes. Well, I'm 26, and some days I wake up and wonder how I got to wherever I find myself. I'll be like,where are my parents? Where's … Continue reading Where Am I?
Loud and invisible are just two of the myriad of synonyms I could have chosen to use in describing the issue of Self-image. Some have an over board image of themselves, they're the loud, proud, ones. Others have a deficient perspective of themselves, they're the invisibles. But is there a middle ground? if there was, … Continue reading Would you rather be Loud than invisible?
If you've read my post, How I stopped fantasizing, you may have wondered why I felt the need to terminate something as normal and automatic as engaging in fantasy. Fantasy, according to Merriam Webster is, an idea about doing something that is far removed from normal reality. It starts in the mind, its a mental … Continue reading Why I stopped Fantasizing
Well, at first, I thought, how can I expect myself to stop something that is controlled by the nervous system
Twenty five! Oh my! That’s ¼ of my life expectancy. Clocking Twenty-Five is something special, indeed. A couple of weeks back I was having a conversation with an acquaintance and I got talking about Age Thirty (She had asked about my age and I told her Thirty- Brown lie!). I went ahead to vocally imagine … Continue reading 10 THINGS I LEARNT AT 24
Hey guys I got struck with writers block few hours after my birthday. To be honest I got struck with many things, the greatest of which was dissapointment. At 25years which is one-quarter of an average lifetime, I got only 10 successful birthday wishes. No cake, no gifts, no nothing. It seemed like no one … Continue reading A Birthday disappointment and a special gift.